woh jitnii baar naa kahe use haa.n hee samajhnaa

Film: Kasam Paida Karne Vaale Ki

Year of release: 1984

Spoken by: Satish's Daimaa (Geeta Siddharth)

Spoken to: Satish (Mithun Chakravarty)

Dialogue writer: Dr Rahi Masoom Raza

Recently after the Nirbhaya incident, when Justice Verma submitted his report,  there was a lot of discussion as to whether marital rape should be included within its ambit. Consent and its contours have been in focus these days. If you ever wonder why the society thinks in a certain way, please listen to the dialogues used in the potboilers. They are supposed to mirror the way society thinks. But in reality they fashion the way society thinks. 

So when Satish was going in to his bridal suite on his wedding night to be with his newly wed wife, his Daimaa tells him this gem:

"woh jitnii baar naa kahe use haa.n hee samajhnaa"

"वो जितनी बार ना कहे उसे हाँ ही समझना"